You’ll Keep Missing Red Flags Until You’re Able To Identify Green Ones.

It’s hard to spot red flags when you think you’re in love.

Move Towards Green Flags

It’s best to identify red flags or negative behavior traits. It’s even better to look at them from a distance, it’s best to surround yourself with green flag people, who have positive behavior traits.

What Do Green Flags Look Like?

Safe people are made up of sugar and spice and green flags.

1. Safe people act on empathy.

Safe people care about you and your wellbeing. They’re interested in your feelings.

2. Safe people confront us instead of trying to flatter us.

Safe people care about your feelings, but they aren’t all about feeling good, trusting, helping, or sharing. They’re about justice and truth.

3. Safe people remain stable and consistent over time. They are reliable with their words.

Safe people follow through with their commitments. They are careful and particular about the words they say, this makes them less likely to commit to people. They evaluate their time and whether or not they can truly help you.

4. Safe people have a positive impact on us. They encourage us to be better.

Safe people bring out the best in you. You should feel positive feelings around safe people.

Resist The Urge To Doubt Yourself

It can be difficult to identify unsafe people when you’re learning or think you’re in love.

I write for women in recovery, empaths, visionaries and lovers of love. The truth is never easy, but it’s the only path to healing.

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